If I had to give a very unscientific estimate of all my friends who’ve been totally against the idea of dating a woman with children, I’d say it’s around 5% of the people I’ve known.
I improved myself, improved my life, and strove to be a little bit better every single day, making small, incremental improvements in all areas of life so that when that person came, I would be ready to seize upon the opportunity.
This isn’t just blind optimism, here, feel free to raise your hand if you’ve ever gotten into a relationship where someone told you that a laundry list of things was cool with them at the outset, only to find out months later that they hate them all.
People who are straight-forward with their wants, needs, desires, and expectations are a breath of relief in a world that’s so often dishonest, especially when it comes to intentions.
People are going to be attracted to I know it can sometimes feel like the process is taking forever, but if I can give any suggestions here, it’s that it pays to do the footwork and trust the process.
When we achieve the small goals we set out for ourselves incrementally, over time, we begin to develop into the kinds of people we’re happy with, and this is important.
These are common questions asked on social media and other platforms which really seem to bring an immense amount of dread to the questioners who ask them.