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I've come to really chafe at the idea that this is an "expected" part of sex for men, so while I'm 100 percent psyched to do it for the right partner, I'm only going to do it if actively want to.
There's no intrinsic fun in it for me, except that I love him and I want to make him feel good, you know?
I don’t know what happened (maybe I gave too many back then?
), but now he gets one maybe once every six months, if he’s lucky, and I have to be drunk.
Recently, Bustle asked women their thoughts on receiving oral sex, and their answers stretched all the way across the spectrum, from passionate love to disinterest and disdain. )..told me he just doesn't enjoy it that much, he said it was the same with his ex-girlfriends, too...
This time around, we asked 16 women how they feel about giving oral sex — and why. I'm happy that he enjoys intercourse, but without head on the table, it definitely can make sex seem stale.
Hence my general preference for partners who are either verbal or at least use their vocal chords during sex.