This means that once they have sent he defect in their romantic partner, they will not think of continuing their romantic relationship with this girl or guy. That means that man are supposed to sit and wait for some action and woman are supposed to do all the confessing and chasing part.
People is usually open to give second chances so that they can know their dates more.
But you must keep in mid that these characters do not exist in every Japanese person, but it is a commonly seen characters.
So these are the ways on how to win a Japanese person’s heart: The people in Japan is very strict to gender roles.
But some Japanese people are usually kind of judgmental about their date.
They expect someone close to perfect to be their romantic partner.