Once the sadness has passed, there comes the struggle of learning to be alone again. This definitely pairs with the “no second chances” idea.People become accustomed to things, and maybe this is something they enjoy. (Bummer, I know.)As a defense mechanism, as soon as something seems odd, this person will bolt for the door. But this person also knows what he or she wants and doesn't want. Don't get caught in a lie, and don't do stupid sh*t. Do not expect this person to go out of his or her way for you. This is something that must be earned, as it is most likely something that was substantially taken advantage of before. If it's something you value, maybe try doing it first. It's important to understand that this person had the strength to walk away from something that was so very meaningful in the past, so it will be super easy to peace out on whatever you two have. Not only is it a choice, but this person also knows it's probably safer to walk away than invest more time. ” But know that beneath that hard shell is someone who wants to find love.This person is the hidden gem you've been searching for.You learn lessons about love, lessons about yourself and lessons about life with each relationship you’re in.
First of all, aside from the obvious sh*t these girls have been through, it’s a drag for someone like me who’s interested in meeting a great woman and finds that it’s impossible for some girls to trust any man again.These may be some of the things you're experiencing: This person may just be getting his or her life together and learning how to put him- or herself first again.Sometimes, a lack of compromise is not only because this person is stubborn or selfish.Trust is one of the foundations for all healthy relationships.It's especially important that trust be established at the start of a new relationship.